I will end this post with a little quote from How The Grinch Stole Christmas. He stole all their presents to ruin Christmas for them but they held hands around the tree and sang songs and were still happy and had Christmas anyway. It may give you something to think about.
“And the Grinch, with his Grinch-feet ice cold in the snow,
stood puzzling and puzzling, how could it be so? It came without ribbons. It came without tags. It came without packages, boxes or bags. And he puzzled and puzzled 'till his puzzler was sore. Then the Grinch thought of something he hadn't before. What if Christmas, he thought, doesn't come from a store. What if Christmas, perhaps, means a little bit more.”
Dr. Seuss - How The Grinch Stole Christmas